Billy and Christie made it look easy. (It probably was not easy.) Camcorder, baby on hip, breezy white slacks, Old Glory tee. What glamour. 

Billy and Christie made it look easy. (It probably was not easy.) 
Camcorder, baby on hip, breezy white slacks, Old Glory tee. What glamour. 

January 31, 2012    10 notes    Comments

"Remember, I’m the one who had to call my mom and ask her for the definition of a saucepan."

Mom

January 31, 2012    7 notes    Comments

Tuesday blues.

Recently: standing at the kitchen counter, attempting to peel a hardboiled egg. The white kept coming off with the shell until there was hardly any left, and I stood there, pissed off, late, a million things to do, thinking, “How am I going to do this when I’m a mom?” That’s the question I ask whenever these mundane tasks don’t come easy, like removing an egg shell in one deft maneuver, the flat side of the thumb, the way my dad does it over the sink. He makes it look simple, but it’s not so fucking simple. It’s a craft. And I worry that in ten, fifteen years, when there’s a passel of children pulling on my skirt hem, rolling their sippy cups across the linoleum, screaming for their breakfast, how will I breeze through the mindless bullshit without losing my mind? Example: opening a can of soup over the sink without losing the grip of the can in the opener and dropping the can and spilling all the soup? Or laundry? Loads and loads of laundry? Or hauling groceries into a car and a child in a car seat at the same time in the rain, and the hubby’s on the phone, “What’s for dinner, darling?” How does anyone do that? (I can see my mother now, reading this, saying aloud to her iPad screen, “For God’s sake, Cary, stop THINKING so much.”)

January 31, 2012    26 notes    Comments

canttuchthis said: may i ask what type of running shoes you prefer? i'm in the market and am not sold on my old asics. thanks!

Prepare to be disappointed… I have worn ASICS GT-2170 for the past nine years. Of course, there was one summer spent in a pair of Mizuno Waves, and I occasionally slip into the Merrell Pace Glove for short runs, but the road always leads back to ASICS. Head to the closest running store and get fitted by a professional—they’ll tell you what’s what.

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January 31, 2012    5 notes    Comments

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Irving Berlin: “Count Your Blessings”

January 30, 2012    8 notes    Comments

Fresh stuff, every day.

  • Stuff I have and am totally wild about (as opposed to stuff I want because a girl needs to count her blessings once in a while):
  • 1. Dad on speed-dial
  • 2. Full fridge
  • 3. Great-grandfather's sterling silver pocket knife
  • 4. Montauk seashells on my desk at work
  • 5. New running shoes
  • 6. Street-facing bedroom window
  • 7. Stack of good books to read
  • 8. U.S. passport (It's empty, but it's there.)
  • 9. Vintage Ralph Lauren Blue Label floral high-waisted mom jeans
  • 10. Wake-up calls from Chicago

January 30, 2012    16 notes    Comments

Ambiance. A little autumnal, but we could make it work. My mother says that the single most important factor in setting a mood—at a party, in a restaurant, the bedroom, the boardroom—is lighting. From Vogue.

Ambiance. A little autumnal, but we could make it work. My mother says that the single most important factor in setting a mood—at a party, in a restaurant, the bedroom, the boardroom—is lighting. From Vogue.

January 30, 2012    15 notes    Comments

"Antisthenes says that in a certain faraway land the cold is so intense that words freeze as soon as they are uttered, and after some time then thaw and become audible, so that words spoken in winter go unheard until the next summer."

—Plutarch, Moralia

January 30, 2012    9 notes    Comments

Any given Sunday… Throw in some trash TV and a well-stocked fridge, and then you’re really cruisin’.

Any given Sunday… 
Throw in some trash TV and a well-stocked fridge, and then you’re really cruisin’.

January 29, 2012    14 notes    Comments

Anonymous said: Why do you think you're friends with this one particular ex and not the rest? Not to trivialize the relationship, but did you feel romantically stronger for the others? What I'm really asking is this: I loved a boy and I cannot be friends with him even after it's been forever since we broke up. Is this okay?

No love (or its aftermath) can be wholly understood. (This is why we have literature and music and art—to define something that cannot be defined. If Plato’s Symposium had done the trick, we would not have libraries.) A boy broke your heart ages ago, so you keep him in the past where he belongs. That is, to answer your last question, perfectly okay. Why try to fake friendly with someone who hurt you? (But it will not be this way for every love yet to come. One will eventually just keep loving you and loving you). To answer the first, I have absolutely no idea. 

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January 29, 2012    3 notes    Comments

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Usher: “U Got It Bad”

January 28, 2012    14 notes    Comments

My latest RL Classic is now live on the Style Guide. Don’t you just want to collect them all? And then lounge by the pool in your skimpiest bikini? With Doug standing by, ready to mix a margarita whenever you want it?

My latest RL Classic is now live on the Style Guide. 
Don’t you just want to collect them all? And then lounge by the pool in your skimpiest bikini? With Doug standing by, ready to mix a margarita whenever you want it?

January 27, 2012    7 notes    Comments

Anonymous said: Hi! I'm going to SXSW for the first time ever this year. And I'm spazzing a little (already) ... what do I wear?! I'll be there for four days. I want to be comfortable and I also have to be able to pack everything up in a carry-on bag. Help!

What a fun trip! I’ve never been to SXSW so my style guess is as good as yours. Still, as with any short vacation, pack light, easy, and iron-free. A few cute dresses that you can wear day to night, a slouchy knit sweater to layer, a skinny jean, a button-down for day and slinky blouse for evening. One heel, one flat, one fantastic bag to pull it all together. 

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January 27, 2012    4 notes    Comments

Fresh desires, every day.

  • Summer.
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  • Summer.
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  • Summer.

January 27, 2012    35 notes    Comments

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Notorious B.I.G. v. XX: “The Curious Incident of Big Poppa in Nighttime”

January 26, 2012    14 notes    Comments